Izzy, that was me, calm.
I don't know what the hell your "friends" have told you, but I think that common sense will tell you that, if it's down to bread or
Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna, bread will win. Entertainment is a huge industry in India, but human beings are human beings, and it's simply astonishing some of the things people will take literally in relation to them.
Also, I agree with Ajy1. There's no "real" comparison between what you'll find here and what you'll find "down below" in an Indian movie hall, but it gets "rowdy" here, too, now and then. You should have gone to opening day of
Star Wars — Episode III: Revenge of the Sith: "noisy."
I'll admit, I'm one of the ones who begin to get pissed off by the little girl sitting to my left who just won't shut the f*** up even once when Superman comes on-screen, but, hey, that's just part of the movie-going experience. Unless you can find another seat — or are willing to go to (what ought to be) a less crowded showing — you're more or less stuck.
I, for one, am not among the "shouters"; it's just not my personality. Sure, I'll laugh out loud (especially if others are doing so) if I find something genuinely funny, but I'm not the type to stand up and applaud when Shah Rukh Khan (or whomever the hell you like) first appears on the screen.
Sweetfriend, you "know of another country" where the same thing happened? Do you "know of it," or were you there to partake in the experience? Which country was it? Also, how...
how was it a "beautiful experience"? Sorry, but that just seems like a strange comment.
Izzy, "white-washed" doesn't really mean those things. It just implies that your primary culture is "North American"; your expectations and preconceptions, thus, being in line with "White" values. (Note, I haven't endorsed this claim, but merely attempted to clarify it for you.)
Really, I'd be pretty pissed off if someone started throwing confetti during the middle of a film...especially
Shiva —

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To address something that Sanjay said, I don't think that "stars" necessarily ought to behave any "better" than anyone else: becoming famous does not automatically burden you with "extra responsibility."